Working my BF to an open relationship
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now, things are going well most of the time. I do have a few issues with him emotionally and physically. He is in his mid-thirties and average build, but he is small regarding his penis size.
My previous boyfriend was what I would consider average size, around 6 inches long. But with Derek, his penis size is barely over 4 inches long when we measured it. It looks small and it does not fulfill my necessities.
I fell in love with him, he is very charismatic and loving, the type of man that is there for you when you need him. Very dependable and well liked by my parents and friends. I have talked to my best friend about this issue, she is supportive and thinks you can simply buy a dildo to resolve the problem or get laid by someone else from time to time. I honestly do not want to cheat on my boyfriend, I do love him and I personally do not want to make him feel bad.
But I do want to feel something larger than him and started giving him hints about open relationships. I want to start going out with other men and have sex with someone who has a regular or large penis size. I think we can work on having our relationship, sex and love at the same time as I go out once in a while with someone else. I think it can be healthy for both of us in the long run sexually and emotionally. I don’t think I would want to do it all the time, just right now to get it out of my system and experiment a bit.
Hopefully he will understand and not take things in such a manner that would hurt our relationship. This situation is all new to me, but it’s something I am willing to try and maybe it will take several months for me to convince my bf to commit to an open relationship. I’ve already started passing him articles and hints from time to time. Building up to the moment when I try to convince him, that I love him and just want to experiment a bit outside what we have. In a few months I will write up a follow up to let you know what has happened and if it all went good with us.